Friday, November 19, 2010

Do masculine bi guys exist?

It's late. I have a paper to write, but I don't want to.



I know this is a really stupid question to ask, but it was actually brought up to me a couple weeks ago.
Do masculine bisexual guys exist?
I was talking to this girl, and she was convinced that masculine bi guys do not exist.
Feminine bi guys exist
Feminine gay guys exist
Masculine gay guys exist
All girls are bisexual to some extent (masculine or feminine)
But masculine bi guys don't exist.  'If you're masculine and you like to put your dick there, you have to be pretty gay."

I didn't know how to respond to this.  Thoughts? (BDNY, Joey, I hope you're reading this post. I'd love to hear what you have to say lol)

11 comments:

  1. lol i am reading this! finally i'm (kinda) back to reading blogs.
    umm how exactly would you define "feminine" or "masculine"?
    feminine as in... flamboyant aka flaming? or...?
    well i guess i'm masculine. the only feminine characteristic ppl wud see me of is prolly the fact that i'm into fashion but... other than that i prolly seem like any other straight guy out there.

    "if you're masculine and you like to put your dick there, you have to be pretty gay"
    not that i'm offended by this but i'm just confused as to what it actually means...
    first off, if u like to put ur dick "there" that means that you're gay? as in you cant be "masculine" if ur gay?
    secondly, i've already explained that i dont like to "put my dick there" in my previous blog posts but i like both genders in different ways lol. that girl u were talkin to shud get out more n meet bi guys like me or bdny =P
    n i dont blame her for not meeting enough masculine bi guys cuz if u think about it they arent as obvious cuz well... they're masculine n they ALSO like women so it wudnt be that hard for them to hide their attraction towards men. hence explaining y ppl like her wud think those actual bi guys are... "straight" and masculine and not "bi/gay" or feminine.

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  2. n i just realized my comment is longer than ur post...

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  3. lol it's alright. I didn't ask her how she defined masculine or feminine. I honestly didn't know what to think or how to respond when this girl was saying this stuff. What stood out to me is that she said "like to put your dick there," but never mentionned liking "to have a dick put there." Apparently, her opinion only applies to tops

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  4. They definately do exist. lol. People might say otherwise but most bi masculine guys are closeted. Its the way our society reflects on same sex relationships. I can easily marry a girl and enjoy the sex plus have a good life. It's easier way of doing things. Will I be happy? Nope. They are hard to find but they are out there online. Guess thats how I feel about that.

    BDNY
    http://bidudeusa.blogspot.com

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  5. hold up! bdny, is that a pic of u n a certain significant other?? waaa i've missed out on alot! btw the dude on the left of the pic is lookin kinda hot lol

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  6. lol. nah man not my pic. Joey you're looking more like Tim Tebow these days. def. Hot. lol. We do need to catch up man. Its been awhile.

    BDNY
    http://bidudeusa.blogspot.com

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  7. They definitely exist. I met one when I lived in Denver. I used to see him at a bar after work and always wondered. Then he started bringing a girl in with him and I was like, damn it. And then one afternoon he asked if I would like to hang out some time. We ended up hooking up and he was Bi. And he was totally, totally masculine. Like perfect All American masculine, so, so hot. So yes they do exist.

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  8. what on earth? masculine gay guys exist, but not bi ones? why? they both like dick to some extent hahah I don't get it man. her reasoning is messed. of course they do exist.

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  9. 'If you're masculine and you like to put your dick there, you have to be pretty gay."
    = mess up reasoning.
    Masculine bi gay does exist but mostly they are closeted. I'm talking masculinity in character of mind and soul, not in a bed role since masculine bi guys some also like to take in the ass, enjoying the sensation.

    What I think don't exist is a feminine bi guy. Imagine, a bisexual guy who act feminine, wears bow on his head, few make up but he screws his best gal-friend. WTF?!!

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  10. Um, I exist. I'm pretty sure.

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